I survived it.

I get it.

I’ve got you.

The Wily Survivor

Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Recovery Coach

At The Wily Survivor, we are dedicated to guiding individuals who are attempting to free themselves from abusive “relationships” and who are on a journey of healing and triumph after escaping. Our unique approach combines compassionate support with expert insights to help survivors rebuild their lives. Through personalized, trauma-informed coaching, family court expertise, and empowerment strategies, we provide a safe space for you to rediscover your strength and resilience. Our team understands the complexities of pre and post-separation abuse, divorcing an abuser, family court strategizing, and its impact on family dynamics, ensuring you receive tailored guidance toward rebuilding your life. Join us at The Wily Survivor and embark on a path of empowerment, healing, and newfound freedom.

Does something in your relationship seem off? Does your partner run hot and cold? Are you feeling isolated? Do you feel no one believes your story? Are you questioning your reality? Would you even know if you are in an abusive relationship? I lived through and survived a relationship with a narcissist. The experience brought me to my knees, but I didn’t let it ruin my life. Once I realized who I was up against, I knew I needed to outwit, outmaneuver, and out-strategize the person who tried to destroy me. Whether you need support identifying and understanding an abusive relationship, need help with an exit strategy, or need guidance on how to navigate a divorce or custody battle, let me help you find your smart path forward.

At Wily Survivor, we prioritize your privacy and confidentiality. Rest assured, all information, email correspondence, and discussions shared during our sessions are held in the strictest confidence. We have a steadfast commitment to never disclose, share, or sell any of your personal or session-related data to marketers or third parties. Your trust is paramount to us, and your privacy is our utmost priority.

The most important life coaching method I can teach you is how to be honest with yourself.

Hi, I’m Esther…

 I am a life coach who specializes in teaching you the tools to find your smart path forward.  I earned a master’s degree in psychology and I am passionate about empowering men and women to navigate through and survive the challenges of a toxic relationship.   

Going head-to-head with a toxic person is a different kind of challenge.

Let me teach you how to level the playing field.

  • Identify the red flags of a toxic relationship. How to properly deal with toxic romantic relationships, toxic parental relationships, and toxic work environments.

  • Establish healthy boundaries.

  • How to communicate with a narcissist and how to respond to their inflammatory communications.

  • The dos and don’ts of social media.

  • Identify the narcissist’s tool box (love bombing, hoovering, gaslighting, etc.).

  • Coping strategies for feelings of isolation and loneliness.

  • Establishing a genuine support system.

  • Preparing to leave a toxic relationship, strategies on “leaving smart”.

  • Family court preparation (methods of documentation, choosing an attorney, and dealing with a court-appointed evaluator).

  • Parenting skills during a toxic breakup, how to co-parent, and how to talk with your children.

  • Identify your own behaviors that could lead to future toxic relationships.

  • Techniques for self-affirmation and claiming victory.

  • Learn the power of self-care.

  • Techniques to avoid financial abuse.

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At Wily Survivor, we prioritize your privacy and confidentiality. Rest assured, all information, email correspondence, and discussions shared during our sessions are held in the strictest confidence. We have a steadfast commitment to never disclose, share, or sell any of your personal or session-related data to marketers or third parties. Your trust is paramount to us, and your privacy is our utmost priority.